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Friday, July 6, 2012

10 Most Popular Law of Life

How many of us ever really thought about the meaning of life? Although we live our lives each, many of us who question whether the meaning of life. We need to set aside time to think about this seriously. Unless we really understand our lives today and how we live, we can not change the way we want. There are views of a different life where people will look at life based on education, understanding, and their personal experiences.

Through this article, The Best Book trying to describe the 10 laws of life as the basis of positive thinking.

10. Decision Making

There are certain moments in life where it was hard to take right decisions. This may happen because we do not have all the information we need to make the right decision. Another reason is because we are less careful in dealing with situations or problems. Another factor that may lead to errors in decision-making is our feeling impatient, so we made ​​a hasty decision. At the same time, we must analyze objectively the causes of failure of us. Objective analysis of this kind will help us in our efforts forward. We must ensure that mistakes do not recur. Past experience should be a provision to the success of our future. Enthusiasm and a greater interest to make our mistakes as a stepping stone for future success.

9. willing to give

Wherever we live, we find that there are people around who are very poor and unable to meet their basic needs. Some of them can not even eat 2x a day. They live in a moldy house. They have no decent clothes to wear. Their children were seen in the environment around us and do not continue their education. Once you're at the point where you feel comfortable, think of those people who are struggling hard to earn money for survival. In this case, we must provide assistance to them in material form or any other form. Scholarships can be offered to students who come from poor families. Assistance can also be given to care and hospital costs for patients who are poor. Some of them have no shelter and were forced to sleep in the open. In short, we can find a variety of ways to help people in need. And we must help them unconditionally. Those who are well off should set aside a portion of their income for such activities.

8. Hope and faith

Fate is not a matter of chance; fate is a matter of choice. Fate is not something we have to wait, but we have to achieve something. Man is the architect of his own destiny. Fate or destiny is the result of our actions and efforts. If we know the events that we will experience in coming years, what is our reaction? Most of us think: we already know our destiny, so why should we work? Whatever we do will remain the same result. If you keep doing that, you never move forward. There will never be a new product or new invention. Only stagnation was going to happen. Fate makes people passive and dull growth. We should not rely on luck. We must understand the importance of honesty and hard work. As the saying goes: the work is part of the prayer. Intelligence with hard work and sincerity will result in success in various fields.

7. Law of Karma (because of deeds in a previous life)

This point is specifically for those who believed in the law of karma. Under the law of karma, every effect must have a cause. All occurred since the start there first. Some people live to 100 years even while the other died at a young age. Some people die a painful way to lay in the hospital due to serious illness. Conversely, there are those who die without feeling pain. Basic questions that arise in one's mind is: why is there so much difference in people's lives? The answer is very simple: because the law of karma. People gain from their thoughts and their actions in previous lives. If a person has to live with honesty, helping people around him; sooner or later he will get in return. People who have a good and comfortable life possible has been done many good deeds during his life first, and vice versa. The soul is eternal and is always there. The soul can never be thrown into the water or burned by fire. The main purpose of life is to reach the stage of self-awareness and perfection. The soul must go through several stages of birth and death of the soul until it can reach its final destination. However, the soul can reach its final destination if people no longer have the desire, all matters have been resolved and no longer bear the burden.

6. Humans Must Respect for others

At first glance, this point seems to relate to the moral aspects of life. No doubt, the question of moral integrity is important but this point has a deeper meaning. Often, a person feels humiliated by his superiors and in the presence of her co-workers. If he continues to be embarrassed in the office or among his friends: he will lose self-esteem. People who experience this will not only feel helpless and disturbed, he will tend not to respect his superiors and even the use of offensive language. In these situations, it is advisable to withdraw from the workplace or the environment although in certain situations this is not possible. As an alternative, he should come clean to his superiors about feelings and how it affects her work. Superiors should be mature enough to understand that he must respect his subordinates. By doing this, the relationship between superiors and subordinates will be improved and will create harmony between them.

5. Must Have Human Needs Satisfaction on the Social

Man must have a social life because he could not live alone. Except for those who shy away from material life and seek enlightenment; humans need social interaction. In antiquity, the family system, social needs can be met by the interaction between family members. But with the increasing number of nuclear families, people with ties to the breaking of social interaction. In the big cities in the middle of dense population, one can feel isolated. He lived in the midst of strangers. He must satisfy his social needs and find ways to frolic with the surrounding environment. He could join a social club or association in which he could spend time and interact with fellow members with similar interests. Parents should not curb the social lives of their children. If they ban the kids to hang out with his friends, parents should be aware that it would hamper their growth.

4. Getting a sense of human superiority should be (at least) the first thing

Be an expert in several fields. Man must work in accordance with the expertise memilh, though often the freedom to choose the job is impossible. The point is that whatever work she does, she must be good at his job, and from there he will get the respect of his group. This expertise should continue throughout his life he has. For example, let's look from the academic field. A professor teaching a course in advanced classes at a university. He does not just have to have enough knowledge of the subjects he teaches, he also had to teach in a way that students can understand. If the student thinks he can teach well, they will be eager to attend college in the eye and give him respect. The professor will feel very happy when he learned that the subjects he taught were well received and appreciated.

3. Energy should be Disbursed

In everyday life, we often find parents who prevent their children do things they're interested. If the child against the wishes of her parents, the parents will reprimand and requested that they not do it anymore. This might work for a while but if often done, this will be bad for growing children. If the child is in the age range 14-20 years, and he will rebel against her father publicly. For example, when the water boils, steam power with a strong urge to be generated. Well, if there is no discharge and the water continues to boil, there will be a blast. The bottom line is if someone has the urge to do something, is not recommended to press the push. Pressing the "encouragement" will result in a decline of people's lives are concerned. It would rob the unique personality of the person.

2. Must Listen to the Voice of Human Heart

In order to achieve an organized life, man must obey his conscience. In fact, this point is the most important law of the laws that already exist. If man is incapable of listening to his conscience, he will not be able to control and direct his life. Also note that we can never decide what to do to others. But we could hear our hearts that will tell us what we should do. Once again, parents have a major role to encourage their children; the more they grow up they should direct their lives. For this, parents should provide guidance so that they can know how their intuition can guide their lives. If a person has developed the habit of meditating, it will be easier to listen to heart sounds. Meditation will also take him to a spiritual awakening.

A. Organizing and Directing Her life should be

This fundamental law says that people should control their lives. He should be able to shape their lives according to the expertise and interests. However, this may happen if he Greenworld regular life. He must ensure that all activities have the time so it has a balanced life. Thus life will help to avoid wasted time and allow the man to deliver maximum results and at the same time provide relaxation and joy for himself. Currently, many things are changing rapidly. The world has become a global settlement. Technological changes taking place every day. It is therefore important for humans to keep abreast of changing times. This may occur if you have the curiosity to keep learning new things. You should not delay the process of learning. If you delay the process, you will get yourself stuck in your area. In this competitive world, many people who will precede you. This would undermine the spirit of you and make you feel frustrated.
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Thursday, July 5, 2012

"Charming" is important!

I found the writing of a good scientific journal of cafesalemba, titled Beautiful Politicians (King & Leigh, 2007). They want to prove, whether the politicians are beautiful (the point here is not only beautiful but also good-looking) much more to choose from. Due to various reasons in the interest of research, Australia was chosen as the study area. The result? In the words of their own: Beautiful Candidates are indeed more Likely to be elected, with a one standard deviation increase of in beauty associated with a 1 ½ - 2 percentage point increase of in voteshare. Not too big, but in Australia, with the number of candidates is much and the difference in the sound of a thin, 1-2 percent can be very significant. Other findings are more interesting: we find evidence suggestive beauty That matters more in electorates with a higher share of apathetic voters.

Hmm ... I immediately recall election of 2004. Some media said that the elected candidate is favored especially by the mothers, who perceive the candidate as "handsome and dashing." I also remember some analysis of our political commentators, that the behavior we actually mostly apathetic voters. Ha! Worthy candidate can win it right?

So it's not fair? Candidate given his good looks or beauty (which given the quality?) could get more votes than not handsome/beautiful?

Actually, that beauty matters not only in the realm of politics. From the prologue in writing that I also get the conclusions of previous studies: the labor market in Canada and the U.S., the more attractive people get better wages (Hamermesh and Biddle, 1994), including for professions such as lawyers (Biddle and Hamermesh, 1998 ) and advertising executives (Pfann, Bosman, Biddle, and Hamermesh, 2000). It is also apparently true for the labor market in Australia (Borland, 2001) and the United Kingdom (Harper, 2000). Why, it's in the West, certainly not in the East right? No, this is also true in China (Hamermesh, Meng and Zhan, 2002). To add to the 'injustice' that, I add: that people are less attractive more Likely to commit crime (Mocan and Tekin, 2006). I've also read that people who have higher average incomes greater than their shorter colleagues (can be found in the journals or articles economics of beauty, perhaps).

The world is not fair? Maybe. But how else would, emang works like that... (at least as demonstrated research).

However, to definitively conclude that it is true the world is only good for people who are handsome/beautiful to pass some thought beforehand.

Actually, what is beautiful? What is a handsome or beautiful? Forget the debate about whether our perception of kegantengan/beauty is socially constructed or provided by nature . Dian Sastro thesis, he says, shows that the definition of beauty is a social construction. I do not know, which I know is Dian Sastro I find beautiful, whether it's because of the social construction of nature or is opinion only. What is clear, cross-cultural research on beauty ratings indicate, in the language of King & Leigh, beauty is not 'in the eye of the beholder'. Is not that beautiful but relatively, like those excuses? Yes, at the micro-individual level. I judge Mariana Renata, for example, quite 7, while you judge 9. However, if surveyed, on a macro level, aggregate may be obtained, the value of Mariana Renata is X while it's Fulanita Y, where X> Y, which means more beautiful than Fulanita Mariana. And that applies across cultures (Langlois et al, 2000).

So, in fact quite safe to conclude at the macro level of beauty is universal, no matter the origin of that assessment, whether social or natural construction.

The next question, how is that beauty? The symmetrical-proportioned? Proportionate like what? Or follow the opinion of Oprah while interviewing Charlize Theron, that beautiful people are those who have a triangular shape harmony between the eyes, nose and lips? (Already, already, no need to check yourself and look in the mirror, he33x). Or follow Pramudya, that beauty is a good arrangement of the bones with attached meat in proportion?

This is not research, but a personal opinion. I personally think is different between 'pretty', 'sweet', 'cute', 'interesting/attraktif', and 'beautiful'. Because it involves a sense, I find it hard to make the restrictions clear categories. I think there are pretty, but somehow, really unattractive. There also are actually less beautiful, but somehow again, why it is very interesting.

I propose we use the charming term for people who do not care about pretty or not, but interesting. Applies to both men and women. This charming term is also used, so the title is good and I use rhyming ("charming" it's important!)

Well, I think it's charming is not associated with physical beauty. In essence, charming is the ability to create comfortable and pleasant for the people in our view. So, this charming beautiful I am proposing to change the economics of beauty in literature.

As shown in the research, it is important that charming! Charming people have more income, fewer criminal act, and preferably to be selected.

Now, whether the world is not fair? While the beautiful/handsome physically, if you want to agree, that charm is not associated with the physical. You may be handsome, charming but not necessarily. You may not be pretty, but it could be charming (or may not). Thus, the charm was not a given quality, but quality can be obtained, can be learned. Charm related to how we want to show ourselves. Personal branding. personal positioning, which can be designed. Well, then, this world is not fair. Neutral. Because it would depend on us, want to learn to be charming or not?

Next, how to be charming? Well, for which I also still have much to learn, he33x. Maybe the people who have been out there interested charming explain?

And Allaah knows best showaab bus.
Only GOD and the All-Knowing
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9 Tips For Happier Life


A. Do not Fear and Worry

Feelings of fear and fear is the mind of the least productive. Most of the things we worry about or fear never happen. So what are we worried and scared?

2. Never hold a grudge

Revenge is the largest and heaviest burden would be if we put it in his heart. Will you take him through life? .... I do not think so. Do not waste our energy by holding grudges, it is definitely of no use. Our energy use is for things positive .

3. Focus On The Issues

If we have some problems, finish our problems one by one. Do not think to solve problems at once because it will make us even more stress.

4. Do not Bring Your Sleep Problems

Problem is very bad for the health of our sleep. Our subconscious mind is the extraordinary that can make us nervous and we are not sleeping soundly.

5. Do not Take Your Problems To Solve Other People

Helping others who are in trouble is a noble thing, but if we take the largest share to solve the problems of others that's the fault of the largest. Let the person who solve their own problems with the largest share.

6. Do not Live in the Past

Perhaps it is comfortable for us to remember the fun things in the past but do not you fall asleep in it. Concentrate with what is happening right now, because we would be able to feel a lot of happiness in the moment. I'm sure we'll have the feeling happier than when we celebrate what is happening today than in the remembrance of happiness'd read in the past.

7. Be a Good Listener

Probably most people including me hard to be good listeners. On the contrary we expect others to listen to us, but actually to learn to listen to others, we will get a lot of new things that can be very useful for the happiness of our lives.

8. Do not Let Frustration Setting and even Disrupting Your Life

Have mercy on us more than anything, I mean let's not give in to frustration. Move on. Take positive action and do it consistently.

9. Always be thankful

Grateful and thankful for everything we get, not only the positive but also negative, because I believe behind every negative thing is there are good things we can learn.
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17 Tips to Overcome Stress in Life and at Work


Stress is the mental state of the most popular in this century. Try to recall how many people you meet says that they are experiencing stress or maybe you yourself are experiencing?
Stress is not a disease, but if you can not handle it in the time specified, you will be exposed to many health problems.

Some time ago I read an article saying that:
- More than 40 million people in Europe or at least 1 in 3 workers say they experience stress in the workplace.

- Stress at work is a second problem that often occurs in addition to the problem of back pain.
- From the survey also said that more than a quarter of workers absent for 2 weeks (accumulation) within a year because of health problems caused by stress.
I apologize for not getting the results of the survey in Indonesia, but I expect more or less the same.

Previously I would say a few main things that can cause stress in the workplace:
- The working conditions are always under pressure
- Unclear tasks assigned
- A very high demand items
- Lack of planning work
- The threat among employees
- Shouts and curses of the consumer
- Friends of work that has always bothered
- Physical discomfort, such as a noisy engine sound, and so less ventilation.
- And the worst, the lack of improvement to address the above issues.

These things can cause physical and mental health disorders such as depression , anxiety, nervousness, unable to focus for long periods and prolonged fatigue.
If there is anything above that you feel.... hmmm, I think you should immediately change your daily activities both at work and in your life as a whole.

Here are 9 tips to overcome stress in the workplace:

A. Plan your activities well: what, why, how, when and who is responsible for these tasks. It is important to plan not only long-term but also short-term (monthly plan, daily plan).

2. Certainly in the past you have experienced problems in the workplace. Try to remember again is there any ways that you can use to solve the problems you face today.

3. Come build a good working climate, that is by being open and communicating with fellow coworkers.

4. Make sure you understand the tasks and responsibilities, and do not hesitate to ask.

5. Do this several times a break for a few minutes while you work. Relax and DO NOT DO ANY. Take a deep breath.

6. Have the attitude of tolerance towards fellow colleagues. Remember that each person is unique, for example: some people actually perform better under pressure while others need more time to finish the job.

7. Delegate some of your responsibilities to your subordinates.

8. Keep your team spirit, for example by doing small celebrations, sports or recreation together.

9. Provide a good working environment. Minimize distractions such as noise, ventilation, light and temperature.

Besides the stress in the workplace, in life in general we can experience stress for several reasons.

Here are 8 tips to overcome stress in life:

A. Do massage body, as well massage for relaxation and normalizing blood pressure. After pemijitan, you will experience improved quality of sleep which of course would be better to restore your fatigue.

2. Exercising regularly is very important in combating stress. Exercise will mobilize our muscles, accelerate blood flow and open the lungs for more oxygen mangambil. The impact you will get a more restful sleep and better health.

3. Do it your hobby, like fishing, hiking or whatever you like. You can also do the adventure you've never experienced before such as rafting suppose.
Perform activities such as this can eliminate the thoughts that cause stress.

4. Assumption that a lot of beer, wine or whiskey can relieve stress. In fact, water was the one who can relieve stress. Research shows that drinking a glass or two glasses of wine can indeed cause us to relax the time, but after missing the alcohol effects, stress is likely to wake you up at night.
By drinking lots of water will help restore your body from lack of fluids, because of lack of fluids can cause fatigue.

5. Do the meditation. Health experts say that a very powerful tool in overcoming stress is meditation. Meditation helps clear the mind and improve concentration. It has been proven that meditation for 15 minutes with us to rest for 1 hour. Although you only meditate for 2 minutes, it will be quite helpful.
Meditation will help you forget the things that can cause stress.

6. When a person experiences stress, a natural reaction if the person is then take it out by eating lots of food. You should know that eating a high carbohydrate-containing foods can increase levels of insulin in the body, where it can make the insulin the body becomes tired and you become a bad mood.

7. Sex is a very good healing to relieve stress. Many doctors say that sex is an extraordinary in reducing anger and stress.

8. If the body is tired, not easy for us in controlling stress. Not getting enough sleep will affect our whole day, and usually we have a bad day because of lack of sleep causes us to concentrate and can not see a problem worse than it should. Sleep is good for adults is 7 hours a day.

You can also read my previous article: 9 Tips For Happier Life

Know that every person has the tendency to experience stress in different ways. Actually control the stress is not as hard as dipikikan, is just a matter of how we see things from different angles. Read and follow these tips or techniques to control stress also will help us.

Please for those of you who have other tips you can add it in the comments
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